Waiting is hard, and there’s a temptation to find another way.
Shortcuts promise growth without all the time and work. They often come disguised as more effective methods of growth. You can usually recognize shortcuts when they promise growth by doing just this one thing, buying this one product, taking this one course. Often is something they're selling.
In the past, while attending a conference, someone will share about the fantastic results they're seeing. It is very tempting to think, “I just need to do what they did, and I’ll get those same results.”
I usually miss or am tempted to ignore that they've been doing this for a long time. Their success was not an overnight result of one action. We love stories of overnight success and tend to ignore the decade of work that preceded it.
This backstory is critical! Without it, I will most certainly not achieve the same results. I can evaluate how to apply what I learn from someone else's experience with a fuller understanding. This understanding also enables me to set proper expectations.
I once built a plant (pictured above). Yeah, you read that right. I wanted to illustrate to my team that you can’t build what must grow. When I first showed them the plant, I asked for observations. From more than two feet away, nobody noticed the tape. It looked healthy; the leaves were green and plentiful. But it was dying. Manufacturing growth is tempting because it feels like a shortcut to fruit. But, in actuality, there is no life to be found.
We love overnight success, but ignore the decade of work that preceded it.
There is a Chinese idiom 拔苗助长 (Ba Miao Zhu Zhang) which tells of a story of a farmer who would daily measure the growth of his crops and felt they grew too slowly. He tried giving them a slight tug to accelerate their growth. That day, his plants were taller, so he continued. They seemed to be thriving, yet they were dying as their roots were slowly ripped from the soil. Eventually, he destroyed his crop.
As a leader, manufacturing growth looks like trying to emulate an amalgam of all the success stories you hear. You're taking the leaves of others' success and taping them to yourself as I did with my manufactured plant.
The fundamental fallacy of manufacturing growth is the assumption that the growth must come from me, I must see it, and I must produce it. When I cultivate, I am deeply involved in the process. But I'm not the cause of the growth. Many plants I cultivate don't grow. And many I ignore or even actively try to kill, instead thrive.
The same is true with people. Even the best leader or parent doesn't guarantee to thriving team or child. As a leader, you have significant influence, but you don't control the outcome. Jesus tells a story teaching this same principle.
The fundamental fallacy of manufacturing growth is the assumption that the growth must come from me, I must see it, and I must produce it
Jesus said, "The kingdom of God is as if a man should scatter seed on the ground. He sleeps and rises night and day, and the seed sprouts and grows; he knows not how. The earth produces by itself, first the blade, then the ear, then the whole grain in the ear. But when the grain is ripe, at once, he puts in the sickle, because the harvest has come."
As you cultivate leaders, you steward a great trust and want to be found faithful. And at the same time, you need a humility that reminds us we can't bear the fruit on our own.
As my jalapeños grew, they eventually fruited, and when they already had fruit, they would still produce and then drop flowers. It seemed they “knew” whether they could handle additional fruit at that time. I wanted them to keep producing continually. That would have prevented them from ever delivering mature fruit and would have likely killed the plant. Impatience will prevent us too from maturing and reaching our full potential.
You want your life to have meaning and impact.
What if your everyday work and life not only felt natural and intuitive but also aligned with your priorities and positively impacted those around you?
Questions to reflect on:
Instead of seeking a shortcut, you can be faithful in the roles of cultivating leaders; providing, protecting, pruning, waiting, resting, and restarting.
Team leadership is a management approach focused on leading and guiding a group of individuals working together towards a common goal. A team leader is responsible for providing direction, support, and guidance to the team members, while fostering a positive and productive work environment.
Team leadership involves setting clear goals and expectations for the team, communicating effectively, and building trust and relationships with team members. It also involves empowering team members to take ownership of their work and contribute their unique skills and perspectives to the team's success.
Some key characteristics of effective team leadership include:
Overall, team leadership is a collaborative and empowering approach to management that values communication, trust-building, and results-driven performance.
There are several different styles of team leadership, including:
Overall, each style of team leadership has its own strengths and weaknesses, and effective leaders may use a combination of different styles depending on the situation and the needs of their team.
There are several key skills required for effective team leadership, including:
Overall, effective team leadership requires a combination of interpersonal, decision-making, and management skills, as well as the ability to inspire and empower team members to work collaboratively towards shared goals.
Servant leadership is a leadership philosophy and management style that emphasizes the importance of serving others first before considering one's own needs and desires. It's an approach to leadership that focuses on the well-being and growth of others, rather than solely on achieving organizational goals.
A servant leader prioritizes the needs of their followers or team members, providing them with support, guidance, and mentorship. They are committed to empowering their team members to reach their full potential and achieve their goals.
Some common characteristics of servant leaders include:
Overall, servant leadership is about creating a supportive and empowering environment for others to thrive. By prioritizing the needs of their followers, a servant leader can inspire trust, loyalty, and commitment, ultimately leading to better outcomes for the organization as a whole.
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Servant leadership is a leadership philosophy and management style that emphasizes the importance of serving others first before considering one's own needs and desires. It's an approach to leadership that focuses on the well-being and growth of others, rather than solely on achieving organizational goals.
A servant leader prioritizes the needs of their followers or team members, providing them with support, guidance, and mentorship. They are committed to empowering their team members to reach their full potential and achieve their goals.
Some common characteristics of servant leaders include:
Overall, servant leadership is about creating a supportive and empowering environment for others to thrive. By prioritizing the needs of their followers, a servant leader can inspire trust, loyalty, and commitment, ultimately leading to better outcomes for the organization as a whole.
Learn more about how to cultivate servant leadership.
Servant leadership can be beneficial in the workplace in a number of ways, including:
Overall, servant leadership can lead to a more positive, productive, and fulfilling workplace environment, benefiting both employees and the organization as a whole.
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Servant leadership differs from many other leadership styles in several key ways:
Overall, servant leadership is characterized by a focus on serving others, prioritizing empathy and collaboration, and taking a humble and accountable approach to leadership. While other leadership styles may be effective in different contexts, servant leadership can be a powerful tool for creating positive change and empowering others to reach their full potential.
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